All About Anal Sex
Anal Sex. You have seen it on porn, you have heard your friends do it, and maybe you have even tried it. Whether you are a newbie or you want to improve on your anal sex pleasure, this class will be fantastic for you. You will learn all about cleanliness and safety, what not to do, and how to make it more pleasurable. This class is open to both genders and all gender coupling or grouping combinations.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: $40 per person, $70 per couple, $100 for threesome
When: Sunday March 4th 5:00pm – 7:00pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
Space is limited so sign up early to guarantee your spot. To register & pay, please go to: www.drsayaka.com or call Dr. Sayaka at 858-337-0046
Or use the link below
Blow Him Away!
Ladies!! You want to know the secrets of those women that guys get addicted to? Not sure about male anatomy, sexual response cycle, and their turn-on? Or, do you just want to enhance your techniques?? In this workshop, you will learn all that, and the following:
- Oral sex techniques
- Hand-joy techniques
- How to make it unforgettable
- Quickie for the times when you are tired, and more!
Please bring not-so-ripe bananas (the bananas in the picture are a bit too ripe for this purpose) or anything phallic of your choice. Zucchini tends to work the best.
Let’s have tons of fun, and you blow him away later
I have taught this class to over 1000 ladies, from pros to virgins, college students to ladies who have been married for decades, artists to A-listers of San Diego
Everyone had something to learn, and they all told me that this was super fun and educational. Many were concerned that it would be cheesy or sleazy, but were pleasantly surprised with how comfortable the class was. If you don’t learn anything new, or if you did not enjoy the class, I will happily give you your money back. So far, nobody has asked for it yet. So, you have nothing to lose.
Who: Women Only
Cost: $40 per person
When: Sunday April 22nd 5:00pm – 7:00pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
Space is limited so sign up early to guarantee your spot. To register & pay, please go to: www.drsayaka.com or call Dr. Sayaka at 858-337-0046
Or use the link below
Amazing World of Female Orgasm
Female form is incredible, and her vulva and vagina are no exception. No two are alike, and all are beautiful and oh so mysterious to even the owners! In this workshop, you will learn about vulva and vagina: anatomy, physiology, how to pleasure them, etc. Oh, so many ways can we pet the kitty… Of course we will cover hot topics such as G-Spot and female ejaculation, difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm. This class is open to both male and females. If you are a couple we strongly suggest you come (no pun intended) as a couple! Or if you are in a three-sum partnership, come all together! All gender combinations are welcome, of course! Please bring a ripe peach or similar to the workshop!
Who: Men & Women
Cost: $40 per person, $70 per couple, $100 for threesome
When: Sunday April 29th 5:00pm – 7:00pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
Space is limited so sign up early to guarantee your spot. To register & pay, please go to: www.drsayaka.com or call Dr. Sayaka at 858-337-0046
Or use the link below
Conversation Salon:
Conversation Salons are great opportunity for you to open up, ask questions, and learn a lot. We all agree to be non-judgmental, true and honest and keep confidentiality.
Be a part of fun sex forum led by two Sexologists Dr. Sayaka and Dr. Nick. Although we live in the culture where sexual innuendo is everywhere, we don’t get a chance to talk about sexuality honestly with others. Come join us, and just be yourself. You can participate as much or as little as you wish. We welcome everyone whatever your gender, sexual orientation, kink, or fantasies. And yes, you can be a vanilla, too.
It’s free and with the complimentary champagne, you have nothing to lose!

Come alone, come all, let’s talk sex!
Who: Men & Women
Cost: FREE
When: Once a Week – Mondays 7:00pm-8:30pm (unless otherwise noted)
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
No registration or fee required, however, please be on time.
San Diego Rope Enthusiasts
San Diego Rope Enthusiasts is a peer-based group which was born in the North County and created with San Diego locals in mind. As a group of peers, our members come together to share tips, pointers, and different methods, and we learn from each other in friendly, casual environments. We are an all inclusive group, so whether you tie with jute, hemp, cotton or synthetic rope, and whether you’re into Shibari, Kinbaku, Damsel in Distress, or just plain bedpost bondage, if you love tying or getting tied and want to meet like-minded locals, this is the group for you! San Diego Rope Enthusiasts also puts together a monthly munch called a Rope Bite and weekly rope practices at private homes and businesses around the county. We also occasionally throw some small, rope-centric play parties at private homes.”
**THIS IS NOT A CLASS NOR A WORKSHOP.**
This is simply a time and place to get together with your rope bondage peers and do a little tying. You could share a tip or two, learn a tip from someone else, or just practice what you already know. Either way, it’s always fun to be in the company of other rope enthusiasts.
It’s very helpful if you bring your own rope and someone to tie, or to be tied-up by.
Bondage-friendly clothing is suggested (i.e. fitted clothing, bras without underwires). Toplessness is allowed, but only if your nipples are covered with tape or pasties. Pasties are available for purchase as well.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: FREE
When: 1st Thursday of Each Month
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
So Cal Shibari Rope Class
This is a great gateway group for those who wish to learn and share rope bondage in a safe and fun environment. If you are curious we are a great place to start.
Both beginning and intermediate to advanced ties are shown at every meeting. We also focus on Peer rope practice and mentoring. While we enjoy many forms of bondage, So Cal Shibari’s primary focus is the techniques and philosophy of Nawa Shibari, or Kinbaku, the Erotic Rope Art of Japan. Expect a little JOhn Willie at times though, and Bettie Page is welcome.
As Shibari is an erotic art, undress is often a part of the art. Casual dress that is close fitting is suggested or undress that is reasonable. As a business hosts us, G strings and pasties are requested if you want to feel rope on skin. The venue does sell both and other really nice toy and fetish ware at great prices.
So Cal Shibari is made up of all forms of sensual preference and expression. We would love to see more men in bondage. For meetings we ask a donation of $7 per individual or $10 per couple for attendees. We will turn no one away from education due to financial hardship. For those who do not have rope we do have a small supply you may borrow and use for the class.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: $7 per person, or $10 per couple – Pay at the door
When: 2nd & 4th Tuesday of Each Month 7:00pm – 9:30pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
San Diego Lifestyle Fetish Workshops
Protocols: Getting What You Want, When You Want It, How You Want It.
Just as any business has its standard operating procedures; D/s has its own set of “Policies & Procedures” in the form of Protocols.
Whether you use (or intend to use) protocol for your service needs, as part of your slave’s training, his or her behavior modification, or simply because it’s hot, this presentation will cover different types of protocols and different uses of protocol.
Learn more about achieving the results you wish to see in your slave or submissive through the use of protocol in your dynamic. The presentation will address the development and maintenance of protocols in both live-in, live separately, or long distance dynamics.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: $3 per person – Pay at the door
When: 1st Tuesday of Each Month
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA