Beyond Monogamy: Intro to the Lifestyle (couples only)
Have you and your partner ever fantasized about adding another person or couple into your erotic play? You two are committed to each other, and want to add sexual variety in an ethical yet playful way? How do people go about meeting other potential partners? What about privacy? What are the rules, what are different kinds of non-monogamy, and what’s right for you? What about STI’s? Aren’t we too old (young, whatever) for this?
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50 Shades of Curiosity: BDSM 101
Has 50 Shades of Grey ignited something inside you that you didn’t know was there? You are curious about the Benwa-Balls and floggers, but don’t know where to start? Maybe you want to create your own “red room of pain” but actually don’t want the pain itself?
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Amazing World of Female Orgasm
Female form is incredible, and her vulva and vagina are no exception. No two are alike, and all are beautiful and oh so mysterious to even the owners!! In this workshop, you will learn all about vulva and vagina: anatomy, physiology, how to pleasure them, etc. Oh, so many ways can we pet the kitty… Of course we will cover hot topics such as G-Spot and female ejaculation, difference between clitoral and vaginal orgasm.
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All About Anal Sex
Anal Sex. You have seen it on porn, you have heard your friends do it, and maybe you have even tried it. Whether you are a newbie or you want to improve on your anal sex pleasure, this class will be fantastic for you. You will learn all about cleanliness and safety, what not to do, and how to make it more pleasurable. This class is open to both genders and all gender coupling or grouping combinations.
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Blow Him Away!
Ladies!! You want to know the secrets of those women that guys get addicted to? Not sure about male anatomy, sexual response cycle, and their turn-on? Or, do you just want to enhance your techniques?? In this workshop, you will learn all that and more!
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San Diego Rope Enthusiasts
San Diego Rope Enthusiasts is a peer-based group which was born in the North County and created with San Diego locals in mind. As a group of peers, our members come together to share tips, pointers, and different methods, and we learn from each other in friendly, casual environments. We are an all inclusive group, so whether you tie with jute, hemp, cotton or synthetic rope, and whether you’re into Shibari, Kinbaku, Damsel in Distress, or just plain bedpost bondage, if you love tying or getting tied and want to meet like-minded locals, this is the group for you! San Diego Rope Enthusiasts also puts together a monthly munch called a Rope Bite and weekly rope practices at private homes and businesses around the county. We also occasionally throw some small, rope-centric play parties at private homes.”
**THIS IS NOT A CLASS NOR A WORKSHOP.**
This is simply a time and place to get together with your rope bondage peers and do a little tying. You could share a tip or two, learn a tip from someone else, or just practice what you already know. Either way, it’s always fun to be in the company of other rope enthusiasts.
It’s very helpful if you bring your own rope and someone to tie, or to be tied-up by.
Bondage-friendly clothing is suggested (i.e. fitted clothing, bras without underwires). Toplessness is allowed, but only if your nipples are covered with tape or pasties. Pasties are available for purchase as well.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: FREE
When: 1st Thursday of Each Month at 7pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
So Cal Shibari Rope Class
This is a great gateway group for those who wish to learn and share rope bondage in a safe and fun environment. If you are curious we are a great place to start.
Both beginning and intermediate to advanced ties are shown at every meeting. We also focus on Peer rope practice and mentoring. While we enjoy many forms of bondage, So Cal Shibari’s primary focus is the techniques and philosophy of Nawa Shibari, or Kinbaku, the Erotic Rope Art of Japan. Expect a little John Willie at times though, and Bettie Page is welcome.
As Shibari is an erotic art, undress is often a part of the art. Casual dress that is close fitting is suggested or undress that is reasonable. As a business hosts us, G strings and pasties are requested if you want to feel rope on skin. The venue does sell both and other really nice toy and fetish ware at great prices.
So Cal Shibari is made up of all forms of sensual preference and expression. We would love to see more men in bondage. For meetings we ask a donation of $7 per individual or $10 per couple for attendees. We will turn no one away from education due to financial hardship. For those who do not have rope we do have a small supply you may borrow and use for the class.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: $7 per person, or $10 per couple – Pay at the door
When: 2nd Thursday & 4th Tuesday of Each Month 7:00pm – 9:30pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
San Diego Lifestyle Fetish Workshops
This months topic has not been released yet.
Who: Men & Women
Cost: $3 per person – Pay at the door
When: 1st Tuesday of Each Month at 7pm
Where: The Deja Vu Love Boutique in Vista CA
